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She will also feel that help is not possible, seeing as when Hannah asked for help she did not receive any, your friend will be detoured even further from asking. If you still think it might be helpful, I agree with one of the earlier comments by a user "Em", read it together and make sure she understands that this is one of the worst possible scenarios and let her know that you are there for her at all times to talk about anything.

Primarily, you should advise an adult about the situation to ensure your friends safety, depending on how far gone she is, a book will not help to bring her back from where she is at. I hope everything works out, honestly. See all questions about Thirteen Reasons Why…. Lists with This Book. Community Reviews. Showing Rating details. Sort order. I'm one of the very few people who strongly disliked Thirteen Reasons Why, so maybe I should explain to you why.

I hate Thirteen Reasons Why.

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Most of all, it glamorises suicide. I'm putting this at the top because I can't believe I missed it in my original review.

And this is a controversial point, because most of my Goodreads friends, whose opinions I would hold up as gospel, loved this book for its realistic and harrowing portrayal of teen suicide.

This book is one big glamorous m I'm one of the very few people who strongly disliked Thirteen Reasons Why, so maybe I should explain to you why. This book is one big glamorous monument to Hannah's suicide. To me, it feeds the myths that a lot of teens hold about suicide, rather than debunk them.

Let me start off by saying that all pain is, eventually, temporary. When I think about the worst pain I've ever gone through - depression, painful and invasive surgery, grief - I thoughtn it would never end. But it did. And it always does. Yes, it will hurt like hell. Yes, it will feel as though it's never going to. But, yes, it ends. And you have to be strong and extremely brave and honest, but there will be a day when you will look back on your worst pain and it will be a memory.

That is why suicide is never the answer. So, what's the reason behind this bizarre, obvious, late-night PSA from the brilliant mind of a bat-shit crazy reader from the minority? I think this book encourages suicide.

There, I said it. I know it's a strong and sweeping and dramatic statement to make. I don't think that Asher wanted it to be that way. I'm not trying to accuse Asher of actively encouraging suicide or anything. I have felt suicidal before. Briefly, never seriously. And yet, the thought that I don't think is that uncommon went something like this: But, when you write about something as sensitive as suicide, I think that possibility is always out there.

This book encourages that line of thinking. Let me tell you, emotionally wrecked teenagers: You will never grow up. You will never see your parents again. You will never have another moment that makes you feel happy or special in the here and now.

You are gone forever. But life will go on for those around you. They won't be sorry when you're dead. Or maybe they will be, but you know what? They'll still be alive. They'll still have life. You won't. They'll get to move on. You never will. But Hannah Baker kills herself. And it's a dramatic, redemptive, cataclysmic act.

Hannah Baker sends the tapes, and she becomes the still point of the turning world. She is Clay's Lost Lenore, the beautiful and romantic and unknowable girl who will live on forever in his memory.

Hannah Baker kills herself, and she makes all those people who ever hurt her sorry. You can tell me that 13RW is all about learning to help the people around us and think about the consequences of our actions.

I'm sorry, readers, I love that you guys could get something wonderful and life-affirming and heartbreaking out of this book, but I just couldn't get past the fact that it's Hannah who teaches these lessons. And I'm sorry, but that's not how suicide works.

Because didn't her suicide work out just great for everybody? Skye might finally get some of Clay's, um, 'help. Everyone learns an Important Lesson, and it's all thanks to Hannah and her decision to kill herself. Hannah shows everybody. And, I'm sorry, but you never do. That's just not how it works. In many ways, Hannah is the evil twin of a Manic Pixie Dream Girl, but instead of living to breathe life into the dull main character, Hannah dies so that she can breathe life into the dull main character and, for all Asher's suicide-helpline advice, I couldn't help but see this as one great propeller of romantic and dangerous teenage myths.

In fact, sometimes, there is quite a divide between some of them, e. But honestly? There was a large, large gulf between the minor and the horrible. But, for the love of GOD, Justin view spoiler [enabled. Mud sticks. A lot of the characters - view spoiler [such as Jenny, the peeping tom or Justin hide spoiler ] would be taking one hell of a chance if they chose to send it along. Hannah is a horrible character. I mean this in two ways. At least, not to me. She sees it all and does nothing.

I can see that. That makes perfect sense to me. Would it have been better if she had intervened? I think we can all understand, to a greater or lesser degree, while she would fear for herself or just not be a fit state to stop it.

Still, she could have called the cops when it was over or something. I have no issue with protagonists who do bad things. I find them really fascinating. I just have an issue with how this was handled. Hannah watches Jessica get raped and does nothing. The boy she really liked openly permits it to happen, knows what would happen and makes no move to stop it. In short: Jessica is raped, while her friend and crush watch and do nothing.

Well, obviously, she tops herself. And views Jessica as being responsible. And, oh yeah, chose to tell thirteen other people about the horrible things that happened.

So, yes, I hated Hannah. But I hated her most of all because of her unending slamming of Jessica. But, worst of all? And she might not have been able to remember any of it in the first place! Excuse me while I go throw up. Sorry for all my outraged repetition up there. It felt more true to life that way. This is the glorious teenage world, where one stupid comment can make you want to curl up in a ball and cry. This brings me on to my second blanket definition of why Hannah Baker is utterly unbearable.

Still, Hannah also has a very didactic narrative voice. Of course, women should not be objectified. They should not be treated like meat. But what happened to Hannah was hardly bullying — it was a brief pain, something to shake off, not something that should blight her in the way it did.

That seemed all backwards to me. So, please, my comment above is not a comment on a misogynistic society. She expresses outrage at one point because she expressed one of the signs of suicidal thoughts: Ladies and gentlemen, I am not exaggerating.

View all comments. Jon Scotch People are taking a crap all over a book because it's portrayal of suicide.

Did any you ever considered that someone who is suicidal might get somethi People are taking a crap all over a book because it's portrayal of suicide.

Did any you ever considered that someone who is suicidal might get something positive out of reading this book?

As a veteran who has been suicidal most of my life since leaving the military I can understand this. It's just like when people say "Jon, why do you listen to depressed music?

If you lost someone to suicide I'm sorry and I understand it hits close to home. Madison I agree with a lot of your statements, especially how glorified they made suicide in the story. I lost a friend to suicide and I can tell you that it I agree with a lot of your statements, especially how glorified they made suicide in the story.

I lost a friend to suicide and I can tell you that it was nothing like how they made it seem. It tears peoples' lives apart, and there are so many teens actually in similar situations, but I hate how they portrayed Hannah's character. Nov 08, Miranda Reads rated it did not like it Shelves: Hannah was so brave, she dealt with life the best way she could Blah, blah, blah.

Are you sitting down? Good, cause things are about to get ranty. If you absolutely loved this book or if you think it really helped you through a tough time - I have absolutely no problem with that. You are completely and utterly entitled to your opinion on this novel - just like I'm en Wow. You are completely and utterly entitled to your opinion on this novel - just like I'm entitled to hate it with every fiber of my being.

My hatred can be split into four parts: Sorry, it's Me Time Now. The Message to the Target Audience - aka just kill yourself. As an year-old adult, I am able to read this book and take a step back to truly appreciate the full wrath of Hannah. She's able to absolutely crumble the lives of the bullies, extract sweet revenge on her ex-friends and even get the boy she likes to admit that he really, really likes her. And how does she do that? By killing herself. Let me repeat that - she's able to accomplish all her wildest dreams By.

And the target audience? Kids who are already thinking of suicide and are curious to see what happens after. And how does the author a grown adult advise them? Just kill yourself and everything will be better after you die. I cannot begin to express how furious that made me.

Okay, okay. I will admit that there is another message - one of accepting, embracing and truly caring for your peers before something tragic happens Well, Hannah only had to off herself for this to happen. Kill yourself and the world becomes a better place. Glamorous Suicide - aka suicide is a wondrous method to bring about change. This is in a somewhat similar vein to the previous - but did anyone else notice how beautiful and poetical her suicide was?

How all the bullies were cowed. How all her friends regretted not appreciating her when she was alive. How everyone felt bad about not being nicer. Even her suicide was a graceful fade-to-black. The book doesn't show any negative repercussions for her actions - just that everything is better after she's gone.

And while maybe some kids may react the same as the ones portrayed in this book, I'd wager that most teens out there won't fall perfectly into the, "Oh-poor-Hannah-such-a-tragic-little-victim" category.

Most teens won't have the self-reflection and emotional awareness shown in this novel. She'll become a footnote, a blip on their radar, and they'll move on. Just because they did some grand, meaningful gesture, does not mean everything they did is given the rose-tinted glasses.

And what Hannah did was absolutely inexcusable. From my admittingly untrained eye, Hannah experiences neither of these. And I believe that if the author wanted us to see either one of those cases, he would have made that abundantly clear. Which makes Hannah's premeditated revenge odd, to say the least. She picks out thirteen people who she's perceived wronged her and sets about to find the most hurtful and vengeful way to ruin their lives.

She wants to make her suicide count by destroying these other teen's lives so thoroughly that they become traumatized and absolutely terrified for the rest of their days. So, who are these life-ruiners you ask? Who are these absolute monsters who made Hannah's life a living hell? Pushing her every day closer to oblivion? She and Hannah drifted apart, just like millions of girls throughout high school She's trying to pin her suicide on a teenage guy who said she has a nice ass.

And he failed. He failed her, her parents and the school. To expect one man to completely turn around a suicidal girl especially one who premeditates her suicide to such an extent that she uses it as a weapon against other kids is in my opinion horribly unrealistic.

And that's the thing that everyone seems to forget - these people who "caused" her suicide are kids. Teenagers with their own troubles, trials and tribulations. They're wading through the murky waters of high school with as much direction as Hannah.

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And in her anger, fury and spite, she puts them all on the same playing field. The peeping Tom and rapist somehow contributed equally to the guy who stole the compliments from her compliment box. Apparently, no one commenting about your haircut is just as likely to send you into a suicidal spiral as privacy violations.

Were you Raped? I will admit there were some of the kids that had it coming i. But, instead of going to the authorities and actually doing something about this, Hannah just outs them in one of her tapes. And, it gets better, she never sends a tape to the rapist. Instead, she sends it to her ex-friend, the girl who was drunk and barely conscious throughout the rape, and Hannah blames her suicide on her.

AND what's Hannah's interpretation? You, ex-friend, caused my suicide cause you didn't want to be friends for life. And to that I say: Dropping Hannah like a hot tamale was obviously the right choice. B Can you even begin to imagine learning that happened to you while your so-called friend was hanging out in the closet of the same room?

And what was Hannah doing? Having a tipsy mental breakdown because A the boy she liked her tried to kiss her and B when she said no, he stopped. Literally all Hannah had to do was step out of the closet and he'd be scared off. But noooooo, Hannah decides to make the suicide tapes LONG after all the evidence has been washed away to let everyone know that she's the victim. That SHE deserves the pity and sympathy. This is the sort of revenge Hannah decides to extract on these teens.

It's unforgivable. I can't believe I wasted my time with this. This is my interpretation of this novel. Is it the right one? Maybe and maybe not. If this book is perfect in your eyes, if it really saved you, I am not discounting that experience.

This book has a LOT of potential to bring about difficult discussions but I feel that the way it is written is problematic to say the least. But again, this is one take on the novel. Audiobook Comments The one thing I couldn't fault this book on was the choice of narrators.

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Joel Johnstone and Debra Wiseman were absolutely perfect throughout this book. The way they played off of each other, the way they conveyed emotions - amazing through and through.

Thank you for your comment. Louiza Miranda, I'm starting this book this week, so I can't speak of it yet; however, I have watched the movie and I felt about the movie exactly the way yo Miranda, I'm starting this book this week, so I can't speak of it yet; however, I have watched the movie and I felt about the movie exactly the way you feel and write about the book.

I have said the same things you write on this book review about the movie. I've been wanting to read the book in hope that I'd prove myself wrong and it was the movie that changed the message of the book.

From your review it seems that the book does exactly what I thought its movie does -- It passes a dangerous messages that basically gives young people or anyone on the verge of suicide the Ok to go for it and an excuse, a justification for it.

I hated how Hanna's suicide was glorified as a justifiable revenge and made it look as if she was still there, which erases the fact of the permanency of death. There are so many wrong things with this and I'm so glad you have mentioned them in such a common sense details. Tape 11 has been updated. I really thought I wasn't going to review this book. But a status sharing certain anti-anti 13 Reasons Why sentiments did that make sense? Let me preface this by saying: If this book or television show helped you in any way , this review is not for you.

We all have our coping mechanisms, we all have our favorite books - I am absolutely not here to shit on anyone's fave. If you liked this book, that's good. Please don't read this. I reserve the right not to be nice to you if you comment on this saying I'm being unfair. There are two sides to this debate. One side thinks this book and the son of Satan television show it spawned is inspiring, important, other positive i-words. I'm going to try to outline for you why I feel that way.

If this at any point seems like I'm telling you you're not allowed to be a fan of this shit, I'm not. But I passionately hate it, so don't expect objectivity. Also, this contains spoilers for both the book and the show, of course. Let's get started.

I'll organize this by my very own thirteen reasons. TAPE 1: Hannah Baker is not a mentally ill character. More on that in a later tape. TAPE 2: Suicide glorification. Especially in those tender, self-centered years in middle and high school.

If I died, then they would know. The mean girls would regret their choices, the guy who never noticed you would wish he had, your friends would worship your memory, your school would make you a martyr. As you mature, you recognize that. But everyone you ever knew does. They might not even remember you.

They, after all, like you, are only teenagers. But not in the world of Thirteen Reasons Why. You are talked about beyond life. You act as a hero, distributing punishments and harsh words as you see fit, with no repercussions for your actions. Your old friends will miss you, the bullies will be humiliated and that humiliation wills them into realizations, the boy you liked desperately wishes that he had just told you he liked you too.

No one will criticize you for placing that unfair burden on them. God, you guys. TAPE 3: Remember earlier, how I posited that most everybody has thought about suicide - at least in the abstract?

And how that most often happens in middle and high school? The same vulnerable, depressed, self-hating group that already has the tendency to think of suicide as an appropriate option. I have three younger siblings. My sisters are seventeen and fifteen; my brother is twelve. My sisters and each and every one of their friends have watched this fucking show. I begged my brother not to watch it, even though all of his friends have seen it.

Do you understand that? Do you see what the stakes of this are? Every student in every middle and high school in America will be told to watch this show. TAPE 4: Having problems? Just kill yourself. The only potential solution offered within the narrative is suicide. And, as I talked about earlier, it works out pretty fucking well for Hannah Baker. TAPE 5: Why is this being treated like fucking Bring It On? Pick a lane: TAPE 6: The show gives trigger warnings.

My friend, who has struggled with depression and suicidal thoughts, and is triggered by sexual assault, had a series of panic attacks due to this show.

But she finished it - against my urging - because she thought it would give some important message or theme to the audience watching it. But it doesn't. And she put herself through that for nothing. TAPE 7: Hannah has reasons for committing suicide. It feels like there are no bright spots and no way out. The difference? Everybody feels like Hannah Baker does. Everybody has the humiliating moments and regrets that, like, haunt them before they sleep every night. But not everybody has severe depression.

It both reduces the trauma of having depression and indicates suicide as an option for people who may have never considered it otherwise.

TAPE 8: Making the guidance counselor a villain is maybe one of the most irresponsible attempts at drama in this stupid fucking narrative. Teenagers everywhere: This book and show are total fucking bullshit. Your guidance counselors know exactly what to do. If you feel safe to confide in a guidance counselor, do it. A teacher, a parent, a school administrator.

TAPE 9: The experts say fuck this. TAPE Say the word depression. How goddamn hard is it? Fuck your quasi-advocacy. This is an instruction manual. Check my notifications, see one from The Washington Post. Feel awful for that poor vulnerable kid, but also think, Of course. It happened. A year-old in Peru committed suicide and left tapes. Look at all these beautiful teens.

It just feels especially significant when you think about how smugly this show pats itself on the back. That goddamn ending. This show just makes no fucking sense. Bottom line: Fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck this book, this show, Jay Asher, and anyone who had any part in bringing it into existence. Autumn I loved the book, but also loved your review. I just hope that if anyone reads this book it will make them want to know more about the true consequences of suicide rather than the false ones in the book.

I read a book recently called Bully 70 short stories from authors. I hope that someone like you who is incensed by this book and wants to write will make one that shows the truth not, what the person who is considered suicide thinks will happen. It is conversations had like this that help broaden us as humans. Unfortunately those who do commit suicide never hear from those who can tell them how beautiful hope is on the other side of pain.

They only hear from this book that you can get revenge. Also one more thing anyone who criticizes you for your opinion is the smaller one. I know I just criticized them, but I believe there is a difference. Mainly cause I am criticizing their actions and they are criticizing your opinion. Ella I've always had pretty good mental health, but I've got friends who don't and I pretty much begged them not to watch this show they didn't listen I've always had pretty good mental health, but I've got friends who don't and I pretty much begged them not to watch this show they didn't listen I can't believe that someone would publish a story like this and not expect there to be repercussions.

It actually blows my mind. It is told from the perspective of Clay, but is mostly about the life of Hannah - a girl who recently killed herself. After her death, Clay receives a set of cassette tapes on which Hannah explains the thirteen reasons why she decided to kill herself. And he is one of them. It is extremely compelling - unputdownable almost - but a problem many readers have is that the book relies on your sympathy for Hannah to effectively relay its message, and yet Hannah comes off as bratty, selfish and ofttimes over-sensitive.

Many of her "reasons" are things that everyone has experienced at some point and people generally file those under "bad days" and definitely don't kill themselves because of it.

But actually, I completely understood and sympathized with Hannah. As a suicide survivor, I even related to her at times.

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And, though I don't attempt to speak for everyone, I feel in a position to attest that there can be something bratty and selfish about suicide. I think this book captured a certain feeling very well and I disagree with those who thought Hannah wasn't realistically suicidal. It's true that nobody kills themselves because they get stood up, and nobody kills themselves because some douche groped their ass, and nobody kills themselves because of a mean rumour People like to look for clear-cut reasons that make sense.

They want Hannah to give a good reason why she killed herself. But, in reality, it so rarely is one big reason you can point to. Most of the time, the little things all build up, day after day, one small thing after another, until the little reasons all blend into a single feeling of hopelessness.

That is what this book is about. And it's also about taking responsibility for your actions and understanding how your small selfish acts can affect someone else. I did not have an issue believing in or finding sympathy for Hannah. My only real issue with this book was Clay, the revelation about him, and the way he viewed the truth about Hannah. Clay changes his mind about Hannah based on what he hears and decides she did not deserve to be slut-shamed because the rumours weren't true.

But - would she have deserved the treatment any more if she had done what the rumours said? And I wish the book had taken the opportunity to address that. But otherwise, this is a creative pageturner, even if it seems a bit strange that cassette tapes were being used in I liked it a lot and it really made me think.

View all 96 comments. I did not like this book. I don't know why this book is so popular. And I honestly don't know what all the rave is about. I heard so many great things about this novel, that's why I read it. While this was a good book, well written and all…the plot was just not good enough—no, the reasons leading to Hannah Baker killing herself were not believable enough for me.

I mean sure, they did some horrible things to her in high school, that doesn't mean you should just go off and commit suicide.

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As far as I'm concerned, those kinds of situations happen to everyone. And I don't believe for one second that no one noticed that she wanted to commit suicide. What about her haircut? Didn't the author mention that the teacher passed out a flyer called "The Warning Signs of a Suicidal Individual? What about "Giving away possessions? Didn't Hannah leave an anonymous note telling the teacher that? After she told Mr. And he didn't stop her? Come on, they couldn't have been that dumb!

Hannah, above all, just sounded whiny. And I just couldn't sympathize with her character. And committing suicide and then blaming people for it is just a stupid excuse for killing herself. She was the one that decided to kill herself, not them—not anyone.

She just needed someone to blame. And poor Clay! If Clay wasn't one of the reasons Hannah killed herself, then why put him through the agony? Why give him the tapes? She could've just written him a letter. And Tony! Hannah put even the ones that had nothing to do with her in pain. For example: Because I know he was hurting, too. He felt helpless because he couldn't have saved her. One second I'm reading in Clay's point of view, the next Hannah's.

Also, I think suicide is a very serious issue so I didn't really buy Jay Asher's portrayal of Hannah's feelings. If someone wanted to commit suicide, their emotion had to be deeper, stronger than just hatred and petty resentment for having a bad reputation in High School.

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Therefore, I thought Hannah's emotions weren't very serious, even childish and overly dramatic at times. And after finishing the books I was like, "seriously?! That's why she killed herself?! This was like telling them, "what the heck, end your life if you're so miserable. Just found out this is going to be a movie. Starring Selena Gomez. Also, if you want to know more about Hannah's reasons, read message 6. I figured this deserved a real review. I'm a bipolar chick.

I'm a girl who has struggled with suicidal thoughts since she was nine years old at the very latest. And I just do not buy 13RW's representation of a suicidal girl. The very premise of the book is flawed to me; you don't kill yourself for REASONS, you kill yourself because there is a bug in your brain gnawing at you and sucking out any valuable thought you've ever had, and I never saw that kind of bug in Hannah. I saw a girl who killed h I figured this deserved a real review.

I saw a girl who killed herself because boys were mean to her, and I think that if you reversed the sexes and made it a boy who killed himself for Hannah's reasons, no one would have bought it. It's a symptom of a larger epidemic you see all the times in discussions of girls with mental illness. Boys are legitimately fucked up and have genuine struggles with mental health, but girls are hysterical. Hannah's depression is entirely circumstantial, as is her suicide, and I just do not buy it.

Not to mention I think it's a complete cop-out to have Clay be the only guy on the list who didn't fuck her up.

It was compelling, I'll give it that. I read it in one night about five years ago. Jan 30, C. I read this book back in when I was a teen and I hated it. I still hate it. My review is getting a lot of traffic atm so I'm just going to do a little update and leave you some links to better reviews that tell how problematic the story is: Tweet thread on the problematic show.

Article on why it's dangerous. Goodreads review on why it's seriously bad. I'm not responding to comments because wtf is going on in the comment section I have no idea.

I'm sorry my review is more distraught and emotional than analytical and full of logical reasoning. I don't care if you like this book, but be respectful of people who say it's triggering, problematic, and sends a dangerous message about romanticising suicide and condoning revenge suicide.

I have also had to talk someone down from killing themselves and let me tell you: It was the worst moment of my life. I still nearly cry when I think about it. Because if they'd gone ahead to kill themselves, would I be to blame? Any book that says that yes I would be to blame like this book is saying is poisonous.

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Please don't read it if you've had suicidal thoughts or know people who've committed suicide. You won't be encouraged. You'll be triggered. But this one? I hated it. I hated the message the author was sending. I think it was wrong and cruel. Obviously, this is just my opinion! But I will enver recommend this book. To a certain extent, that can be true. She was just as guilty, and more so, then any of the kids that teased her, because she then ruined and destroyed 13 lives.

I hate that. I hate the message this book sends. I hate how Clay even GOT the tapes. It was totally against the rules she set up. I was so angry and so distressed when I finished this book, it almost turned me off reading. And this made me hate them oh-so-much. This book is in no way okay. View all 69 comments. Apr 06, Emma Giordano rated it it was amazing Shelves: I had heard very mixed things for some time and it seemed a lot of readers were very divided on this book, but I personally really loved it.

Maybe the author did not go about things in the best way in my personal opinion but I do think the message that your actions influence others in ways you may not realize came across well.

The path to get there was not perfect, but the execution was. I also despise the reviews on here saying that "Hannah had no excuse to kill herself, she was not depressed enough and it wasn't believable for her to commit suicide because of these reasons. Work on your stigma regarding people with mental illness. I am SO SO SORRY that you feel someone who is a victim of bullying, sexual harassment,t sexual assault, who reaches out for help and is told to "move on" is not a "good enough excuse to kill themselves" but I am NOT HERE for delegitimizing one's personal suffering because it wasn't something you have experienced.

Depression manifests in a multitude of ways. People commit suicide for a variety of reasons. I've been diagnosed with clinical depressed and spent most of my adolescence in a cycle of self harm and suicidal ideation.

Can I related to Hannah Baker? No, I cannot. Our stories are very different. But that does not mean it is impossible for her experience to exist, or that others will be unable to relate to what this poor girl went through.

If you view life through a singular lens, I promise, you will continually be let down by those who's lives do not perfectly mirror your own. I also want to note that I DO see why this book has upset so many people. I really do see the perspective of others who disagree with this book and don't feel it achieved what it was trying to, I just personally feel differently.

It was a great experience and I'm glad I read it! View all 16 comments. A Conversation From Yesterday You are a reader, right? If you haven't read it, you should read it. It's about suicide. Hmmmm, yeah I think that sounds familiar. Hold on lemme check. I see that this book is pretty well-loved and highly reviewed, but I quite frankly don't see the same beauty as everyone else.

So if you are someone who loved this book and loved Hannah, you should probably pass on my review because it might piss you off. Hannah's ridiculous 13 tape manifesto is all about laying people out for not seeing or simply failing to care how their actions affected Hannah.

She plainly says that she asked Courtney over to her home--not to befriend her--but to help her catch Tyler peeping in her window with his camera. Also, later she describes how she engages a random girl with whom she's never spoken to before in conversation in order to look beyond the girl's shoulder and catch Zach stealing notes out of her "Encouragement bag. How do you think Courtney felt being asked over to your house simply to playact for a peeping Tom?

On and on Hannah rants at everyone about how dare they do this and how dare they do that to her - but seriously - watching her hypocritically commit similar actions of insensitivity and constantly put herself in asinine situations completely undermined any sympathy I had for her.

Do I think it's fucked up that Tyler peeped into her window a situation that felt totally contrived? Is it fucked up she witnessed a rape and felt guilt for not acting to stop it? Same with the stop sign situation. But by the time most of those things happen, she has already dug her own grave in her mind.

AND she did nothing to try and solve her own problems.

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Being a female teenager especially sucks. But what Hannah failed to realize is that almost every other character in her story was just trying to do the same thing as her: I'm all for being mindful of your words and trying to be aware of how your actions affect others; however, you can only do your best--but to think constantly about how your every word and action might affect someone else can result in complete paralyzation.

I'm not anti-suicide and I'm not railing against Hannah for choosing that course. I'm just not down with the 13 tapes vilifying other people for not thinking about how every move they made affected Hannah.

You can't control what other people do and how they act, but you can control how you respond. View all 81 comments. Poorly Sketched Supporting Characters: Hannah, the girl who killed herself, and Clay, the boy she sent her "suicide note" tapes to, were fairly believable and well-drawn individuals.

But everyone else in the story seems interchangeable, with motivations that are never made clear or seem to constantly switch to serve the purposes of the plot. I couldn't tell the difference between Courtney Crimson and Jessica and Mr. Porter, if there was one, and I couldn't keep track of what they did to Hannah.

They seemed like a stock supporting cast of high school kids and teachers that Asher picked out of a hat. An Unlikable "Heroine": Hannah blames everyone else for her problems, then kills herself and drags everyone else into her misery too. Sure, she went through some rough stuff, but was it really that much worse than what most high schoolers deal with, and get over? She's like a vengeful harpy, tormenting those she blames for pushing her over the edge and haunting them from beyond the grave.

What a great role model for kids. Like I said, Hannah and Clay are somewhat believable characters, but they often speak - and think - in ways that no teenager does. There's way too much of Clay "talking" to Hannah in his head along the lines of, "Hannah, why did you do that? And Hannah's always saying stuff like "I bet you wonder how you fit into all of this… well, you'll soon find out! Soap Opera Melodrama: The dialogue and action in this book are ridiculously exaggerated and overwrought, even by the histrionic standards of young adult fiction.

There's almost no subtlety. I mean, I know teenagers love drama, but does Asher have to telegraph every emotion, every twist in the plot, with a metaphorical exclamation point? It's like a Lifetime movie about suicide. The literary equivalent of a shitty, screamy emo song. Amateurish Writing: This kind of dovetails with the points above, but… I really don't understand how this got a good review from anyone over the age of There's way too much telling and not enough showing in this book.

It almost reads like it was written by a high schooler, minus the authenticity. The contrast between the two young adult novels couldn't be more clear. Alexie's is a realistic, clever, and often heartbreaking story of what it means to grow up as an outcast that ultimately transcends its setting and resonates across generations and backgrounds. Asher's is an overcooked, amateurishly written, poorly realized picture of overdramatic suburban kids chasing their own tails into oblivion.

I'll admit, this one had me going, even after I realized I was being taken for a ride and didn't much like it, I kept reading. Partly because I was reading it while substitute teaching an English class where all the kids were reading too, so I had nothing better to do.

But I was also really hoping the ending would redeem some of the shortcomings and make it worthwhile. It just fizzles out. Phone or email. Don't remember me. Precious Diane. Precious Diane pinned post 5 Feb So Sierra lives two lives: And leaving one always means missing the other. Until this particular Christmas, when Sierra meets Caleb, and one life eclipses the other.

By reputation, Caleb is not your perfect guy: But Sierra sees beyond Caleb's past and becomes determined to help him find forgiveness and, maybe, redemption. As disapproval, misconceptions, and suspicions swirl around them, Caleb and Sierra discover the one thing that transcends all else: What Light is a love story that's moving and life-affirming and completely unforgettable.